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    She's Your Friend » Pregnancy

    Postpartum Bladder Control problems ( + how to fix it)

    by Joanna Stephens Published: Jun 22, 2021 · Updated: May 27, 2022 · This post may contain affiliate links. We earn commission from purchases made. ·

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    a woman holding her pee with text overlay that reads postpartum urinary incontinence why it happens and how to fix it
    a woman holding her pee with text overlay that reads postpartum urinary incontinence why it happens and how to fix it

    Everything changes when you have a baby, but postpartum urine leakage or incontinence, is definitely not a change moms want!

    a woman holding her pee in while also holding some toilet paper
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    • What causes postpartum bladder leakage?
    • How long does postpartum incontinence?
    • How to make your pelvic floor stronger?

    What causes postpartum bladder leakage?

    The big question is why. You might have noticed that when you were pregnant, you were peeing more often.

    Everything gets stretched out and changes, and it does take time for your body to go back to normal.

    Incontinence causes:

    • weak pelvic floor muscles after giving birth
    • not emptying your bladder fully

    How long does postpartum incontinence?

    This all depends on you. It can go away quickly if you do the proper exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.

    Some women experience this a year after having their baby, others longer.

    How to make your pelvic floor stronger?

    1. Kegel Exercises
    2. Pelvic Floor Exercises
    3. Don't hold it in.

    Most moms who experience urine incontinence don't even realize they are peeing until their pants get wet.

    The best thing you can do is strengthen your pelvic floor muscles so that you can hold in your pee, and relax your muscles fully so you can empty your bladder out.

    1. Kegel exercises

    Kegel exercises are when you practice holding and releasing your muscles down there as if you were going to pee.

    • Hold for 5 seconds then relax for 5 seconds. Over time, gradually increase the time you are holding those muscles.
    • Another option is to use this kegel exerciser by Elvie, which helps train those muscles for better bladder control. In fact a lot of OBGYNs and Physical therapists swear by it.

    2. Pelvic Floor exercises

    Another equally important thing to do are pelvic floor exercises. While these muscles are small, they are really important for holding in your bladder.

    We really like this pelvic floor workout video by AskDrJo. She is a physical therapist who has lots of really great information.

    3. Don't hold your pee in.

    As soon as you feel like peeing, go to the bathroom. Before baby, you could probably hold it in for longer periods of time, but this just isn't the case anymore.

    Until your pelvic floor muscles get stronger, it's a good idea to go as soon as possible.

    Also, holding your pee in will stretch your bladder. This can make it harder to completely empty your bladder later on. So, just don't do it!

    You might also enjoy: How to Lose Postpartum baby weight

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